Who I work with
I am not good at everything. I am unusually good at these five, and I would rather be specific than pretend otherwise.
Coaches who say they help everybody help nobody in particular. These are the five situations I have spent the most time inside, where I usually know the shape of the problem before you have finished describing it.
You did well and it feels wrong
Imposter syndrome, guilt about out-earning the people you came from, and the quiet certainty that you are about to be found out. Research links guilt about success directly to the imposter experience, which is why being told you earned it never lands.
Read this →Your child was just diagnosed
For first-time mothers of autistic and special needs children. Everything in the system points at your child. Almost nothing points at you, and this is the part that does.
Read this →Someone you love is using
For the partner, the parent, the adult child, the sibling. I do not work with the addiction and I am not licensed to. I work with the person whose sleep, money and sense of reality have reorganised around it.
Read this →You cannot afford to leave
For women whose options are limited by money. Almost every piece of advice you have read assumes a choice you do not currently have, which is why none of it has helped.
Read this →You cannot name what you feel
You know something is wrong. You cannot say what, or when it started, or what sets it off. That is a skill gap rather than a personality trait, and it is where a great many people start.
Read this →If you are not on this list
Book the free call anyway. Some of the best work I have done was with something that was not on any list, and the call costs you nothing except 15 to 20 minutes.
If I am not the right person, I will say so on that call rather than three sessions in.
Before you book
There are situations where the right answer is not me.
If you might have a clinical condition, if something happened to you that you have never processed, or if you are in crisis, you want a licensed professional. I will tell you that on the free call.